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11月29日 Can we wear a condom on mind?I'm concerning an issue regarding safe sex these days...
Obviously, safe sex is already a very sturdy habit for civilized ppl, however, how about safe relationship?
We can have a condom on a dick, so that we could indulge ourselves in physical pleasure and never need to worry about any consequences. But can we wear a condom on mind? A friend of mine just called me and said her BF dumped her for someone else.
She was in a pretty bad shape on the phone, sobbing out how she loved him and the way he paid back, by cheating on her. To be honest, I didn't quite know what to say. No matter how careful we are, we just can't prevent ourselves from bumping into Mr. Heartbreaker, can we? Those guys are everywhere in this city, and i'm sure we all know some. They've got the whole package any girl could ever possibly ask for:
well-educated, have good taste, know about wine and fashion, sweet talker...to sum up, a perfect lover.
but hey wait a minute, you wanna get serious?
NO WAY. My king-sized bed is always too crowd for two.
Maybe they didn't mean to play in the field, or walk around hurting ppl, it's just their inborn speciality. And I call them "emotionally unavailable".
Take me as a bad example.
All my so-called relationships started with a major crush and ended like a short-funded soap opera. Seriously, I cannot think of any words other than that which is more accurate. For ppl like me, who never knows how to put on a condom on mind before fall for someone, it may cost us the most precious thing, which is love...
But as to those master players, all they need to do is to perchase a condom and put it on while they are flirting, or getting any further. The condom will serve as an invisible guard, protecting his heart as well as his body. Truly there is no reason to resign yourself to a relationship without responsibility? whether mantally or physically.
Can we actually walk around without feeling any sense of guilty after putting someone we once cared about into endless misery? At least I can't. Cause at the end of the day, after all these roller-coaster-like relationships, we have to pay the check, and walk out of the amusement park. P.S. I'm so Carrie Bradshaw....hahahah 11月18日 狡兔三窟其实我一共有三个博，两个space，一个blogcn 11月13日 Simens+IBM+MarsSimens 电面 早上九点刚过，我人还在电梯里面电话就响了，一看是陌生的号码 后记：后来check邮箱，发现拒我的是Simens的MT，刚才电面的是CT
看了看seating plan，发现SISU基本属于弱势群体，孤零零的分散在大片大片的复旦和交大中 无语伐。。。汗哪。。。 回到正题 然后我们考场出现了一个霸王笔，被hrjj发现了，客气的请他离开 如我所料，数学题做不完 IBM笔试 最后再补记一下年代最为久远的IBM笔试吧 anyway,多笔一次也没什么坏处嘛 第二部分是小学生应用题 整个考试才一小时不到就结束了，由此终结了我莫名的IBM之旅 PS Simens电面过了，下周去一面，准备群殴去了。。。 11月8日 某女发帖想嫁有钱人，金融家这样回复（转载）到处都被转载的文章，我觉得最后那个中国律师的回复很好玩:-0
一个年轻漂亮的美国女孩在美国一家大型网上论坛金融版上发表了这样一个问题帖：我怎样才能嫁给有钱人？
“我下面要说的都是心里话。本人25岁，非常漂亮，是那种让人惊艳的漂亮，谈吐文雅，有品位，想嫁给年薪 50万美元的人。你也许会说我贪心，但在纽约年薪100万才算是中产，本人的要求其实不高。 这个版上有没有年薪超过 50万的人？你们都结婚了吗？我想请教各位一个问题——怎样才能嫁给你们这样的有钱人？我约会过的人中，最有钱的年薪 25万，这似乎是我的上限。要住进纽约中心公园以西的高尚住宅区，年薪25万远远不够。我是来诚心诚意请教的。有几个具体的问题：一、有钱的单身汉一般都在哪里消磨时光？ (请列出酒吧、饭店、健身房的名字和详细地址。)二、我应该把目标定在哪个年龄段？三、为什么有些富豪的妻子看起来相貌平平？我见过有些女孩，长相如同白开水，毫无吸引人的地方，但她们却能嫁入豪门。而单身酒吧里那些迷死人的美女却运气不佳。四、你们怎么决定谁能做妻子，谁只能做女朋友？ (我现在的目标是结婚。)” ——波尔斯女士
下面是一个华尔街金融家的回帖：
“亲爱的波尔斯：我怀着极大的兴趣看完了贵帖，相信不少女士也有跟你类似的疑问。让我以一个投资专家的身份，对你的处境做一分析。我年薪超过50万，符合你的择偶标准，所以请相信我并不是在浪费大家的时间。
从生意人的角度来看，跟你结婚是个糟糕的经营决策，道理再明白不过，请听我解释。抛开细枝末节，你所说的其实是一笔简单的“财”“貌”交易：甲方提供述人的外表，乙万出钱，公平交易，童叟无欺。但是，这里有个致命的问题，你的美貌会消逝，但我的钱却不会无缘无故减少。事实上，我的收入很可能会逐年涕增．而你不可能一年比一年漂亮。
因此，从经济学的角度讲，我是增值资产，你是贬值资产，不但贬值，而且是加速贬值!你现在25，在未来的五年里，你仍可以保持窈窕的身段，俏丽的容貌，虽然每年略有退步。但美貌消逝的速度会越来越快，如果它是你仅有的资产，十年以后你的价值甚忧。
用华尔街术语说，每笔交易都有一个仓位，跟你交往属于“交易仓位”(tradingl position)，一旦价值下跌就要立即抛售，而不宜长期持有——也就是你想要的婚姻。听起来很残忍，但对一件会加速贬值的物资，明智的选择是租赁，而不是购入。年薪能超过50万的人，当然都不是傻瓜，因此我们只会跟你交往，但不会跟你结婚。所以我劝你不要苦苦寻找嫁给有钱人的秘方。顺便说一句，你倒可以想办法把自己变成年薪50万的人，这比碰到一个有钱的傻瓜的胜算要大。
希望我的回帖能对你有帮助。如果你对“租赁”感兴趣，请跟我联系。”
——罗波．坎贝尔（J·P·摩根银行多种产业投资顾问）
原文在此 What am I doing wrong? (Read till the end for the answer) Okay, I’m tired of beating around the bush. I’m a beautiful (spectacularly beautiful) 25 year old girl. I’m articulate and classy. I’m not from New York . I’m looking to get married to a guy who makes at least half a million a year. I know how that sounds, but keep in mind that a million a year is middle class in New York City, so I don’t think I’m overreaching at all.
Are there any guys who make 500K or more on this board? Any wives? Could you send me some tips? I dated a business man who makes average around 200 - 250. But that’s where I seem to hit a roadblock. 250,000 won’t get me to central park west. I know a woman in my yoga class who was married to an investment banker and lives in Tribeca, and she’s not as pretty as I am, nor is she a great genius. So what is she doing right? How do I get to her level?
Here are my questions specifically:
- Where do you single rich men hang out? Give me specifics- bars, restaurants, gyms - What are you looking for in a mate? Be honest guys, you won’t hurt my feelings
- Is there an age range I should be targeting (I’m 25)?
- Why are some of the women living lavish lifes on the upper east side so plain? I’ve seen really ‘plain jane’ boring types who have nothing to offer married to incredibly wealthy guys. I’ve seen drop dead gorgeous girls in singles bars in the east village. What’s the story there?- Jobs I should look out for? Everyone knows - lawyer, investment banker, doctor. How much do those guys really make? And where do they hang out? Where do the hedge fund guys hang out?- How you decide marriage vs. just a girl? I am looking for MARRIAGE ONLYPlease hold your insults - I’m putting myself out there in an honest way. Most beautiful women are superficial; at least I’m being up front about it. I wouldn’t be searching for these kind of guys if I wasn’t able to match them - in looks, culture, sophistication, and keeping a nice home and hearth.
it’s NOT ok to contact this poster with services or other commercial interests
Craig’s List PostingID: THE ANSWER
Dear Pers-: I read your posting with great interest and have thought meaningfully about your dilemma. I offer the following analysis of your predicament.
Firstly, I’m not wasting your time, I qualify as a guy who fits your bill; that is I make more than $500K per year. That said here’s how I see it.
Your offer, from the prospective of a guy like me, is plain and simple a crappy business deal. Here’s why. Cutting through all the B.S., what you suggest is a simple trade: you bring your looks to the party and I bring my money. Fine, simple. But here’s the rub, your looks will fade and my money will likely continue into perpetuity…in fact, it is very likely that my income increases but it is an absolute certainty that you won’t be getting any more beautiful!
So, in economic terms you are a depreciating asset and I am an earning asset . Not only are you a depreciating asset, your depreciation accelerates! Let me explain, you’re 25 now and will likely stay pretty hot for the next 5 years, but less so each year. Then the fade begins in earnest. By 35 stick a fork in you!
So in Wall Street terms, we would call you a trading position, not a buy and hold…hence the rub…marriage. It doesn’t make good business sense to “buy you” (which is what you’re asking) so I’d rather lease. In case you think I’m being cruel, I would say the following. If my money were to go away, so would you, so when your beauty fades I need an out. It’s as simple as that. So a deal that makes sense is dating, not marriage.
Separately, I was taught early in my career about efficient markets. So, I wonder why a girl as “articulate, classy and spectacularly beautiful ” as you has been unable to find your sugar daddy. I find it hard to believe that if you are as gorgeous as you say you are that the $500K hasn’t found you, if not only for a tryout.By the way, you could always find a way to make your own money and then we wouldn’t need to have this difficult conversation. With all that said, I must say you’re going about it the right way. Classic “pump and dump.” I hope this is helpful, and if you want to enter into some sort of lease, let me know.
____________ Rob Campbell J.P.Morgan Diversified Industrials Investment Banking 277 Park Avenue , 16/F, New York, NY 10172 某中国律师（应该是个女的）的回复：
亲爱的罗波◎坎贝尔：
我怀着极大的兴趣看完了贵帖，相信不少银行家也有跟你类似的看法。让我以一个法律兼投资专家的身份，对你的分析做一反驳。我智商超过华尔街平均水平50倍，所以请相信我并不是在浪费大家的时间。
从生意人的角度来看，你跟波尔思女士结婚是个精明的经营决策，道理再明白不过，请听我解释。
抛开细枝末节，如果相貌资产是注定贬值的，那是否就一定没有人投资？ 我不赞成这个看法。以汽车为例：
一台汽车，无论多么好看豪华高贵，其注定是报废的，那为什么那么多人想买。因为它有价值，
一个是现在的享受价值，你买汽车你就享受了不一样的生活品质，而你买美女的相貌资产，也有了不一样的生活品质，事实上，美女的相貌资产市场行情很好！
请大家注意，有时候租的价钱不一定比买便宜。所以我劝你不要想着租赁的甜头。
一个是它可以成为生产工具，将资产盘活，成为真正的投资品，而不是消费品。事实上，美女资产也可以盘活。
这样一方面从你银行家，也就说车主那里获得了享受价值的对价，那在车主不用时，她还可以出租，获得更多的出租对价。 用华尔街术语说，每笔交易都是有一个附随价值，嫁给你属于核心价值（colevaluation），但如果把附随价值盘活，有时收益超过核心价值。
例如您上班的时候，您太太的最佳选择不是呆在家里，而是利用相貌资产去做点副业。
听起来很残忍，但对一件会加速贬值的物资，明智的选择是购入，然后出租，年薪能超过50万的人，当然都不是傻瓜，因此您应该跟她结婚，然后出租。
顺便说一句，你倒可以想办法把自己变成有相貌资产的人，这比碰到一个想嫁人的傻瓜的胜算要大。 Yours' faithful
Kan (北京律师) 11月4日 流水考完GT之后的日子一下子没有了盼头
虽然之前也没有大张旗鼓的准备过，但是心理上轻松了很多，短期内终于和考试说再见了~
既然今年不准备申请，那么接下来的日子基本上就机动了
找工作是个ongoing的过程，所谓的dream job基本上不可能存在
关键还是看是不是fit，我总是觉得工作和感情一样，如果会有一种归属感那是最理想的
如果暂时没有遇到么，大概是老天觉得你经历的磨练不够多罢
上个星期仍然有大的event，这次是饮料业巨头
到了下午我被临时发配到现场support，室外活动，恰逢上海降温，大家都只好冻着
不过活动很成功，嘉宾出席率高到惊人，是虚伪的社交也好，热闹的聚会也好
对我来说都是一样的，起码比上上星期邮轮上那场热闹
BTW，这次的host是陈辰，出现了一小会儿居然charge 40 grand RMB...
简直就是抢钱么...
天气渐渐冷下来，觉得整个人没什么生机，望眼草木皆灰的感觉
早上出去晨跑怎么都跑不热，冻得簌簌地逃回家洗热水澡
然后和朋友去金茂喝下午茶
天空被一大块一大块玻璃分割开来，阳光倒是很柔和
只是黄浦江依然是沉闷的压抑的褐色，间或有邮轮或是货船经过，在水面上拖出长长的弧线
然后天很快就暗下来了，于是心情就开始变得很down
我还是这么容易莫名的陷入某种情绪之中，真讨厌
想起来很久没有拍过照片了。。。那么就这里小小的露一下脸罢。。。
号称是piano bar，却从来都是放唱片的，音乐虽然不错，不过没有现场还是小失望一下
吃的东西也一般，对不起那个价钱
其实想想也知道，要是这种地方的东西好吃景色又好，早就该被踏破门槛了
晚饭之后又去浦劲续滩（现在想起来真觉得不可思议，那天我喝了多少酒啊。。。而且在一个毫无意义的日子。。。）
其实是冲着现场爵士乐表演去的，最近很迷恋这种安静的可以说说话的地方
也果然没有让我失望，大提琴和钢琴表演都不错，最惊艳的是女歌手
看起来小小的柔柔弱弱的，站在台上就变得很大气，声音也是没有预料到的低沉感性
而且第一首歌就是我最近常听的Eliane Elias的call me
很棒的jazz，bossa nova风，淡淡的小情绪，顺便推荐一下
对了，浦劲的人气好低啊，星期六的晚上，客人加起来不超过10个，果然是号称过气了的夜店。。。
然后就是最近很想败东西。。。god bless me。。。T_T
上一次有这种感觉的时候就发生了Anna Sui惨案，至今我看到这个牌子内心都会莫名的惆怅。。。
可是。。。真好看亚。。。lunasol是我身边的女朋友一致非常喜欢的牌子
进军中国市场一年不到，已经成功俘虏了一大批女人了
marketing做得非常不错，至少，我常常觉得他家好看得太多了以至于无从下手。。。T_T
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